17 Wedding Vows For Him Ideas

 

So, you’re getting hitched—congrats! 🎉 Writing wedding vows can feel like trying to summarize your entire relationship in a few sentences without sounding like a Hallmark card. And let’s be real, the pressure’s on to make it heartfelt, unique, and maybe even a little funny (because who wants to ugly-cry through the whole ceremony?).

If you’re the groom-to-be staring at a blank page, sweating over how to put your love into words, don’t panic. I’ve got you covered with 17 wedding vow ideas that’ll make your partner melt (or at least laugh so hard they forget to cry). Whether you’re the poetic type, the classically romantic, or the guy who’d rather keep it short and sweet, there’s something here for you.

Oh, and pro tip: if you’re reading this the night before the wedding because you procrastinated… well, welcome to the club. Let’s get those vows written!

1. The Classic Romantic Vow

You can’t go wrong with timeless romance. Think sweeping declarations of love, promises to stand by each other through thick and thin, and maybe a Shakespearean-level metaphor or two. This is your moment to channel your inner Mr. Darcy (minus the awkward silences).

Example: “I promise to love you fiercely, to be your shelter in every storm, and to choose you—every single day—for the rest of my life.” Simple, elegant, and guaranteed to earn you some serious brownie points.

Just avoid overused phrases like “my better half” unless you want eye rolls from your sarcastic college buddies in the back row.

2. The Lighthearted & Funny Vow

If your relationship thrives on sarcasm and inside jokes, lean into it! A funny vow shows off your personality and keeps the mood light—because let’s face it, weddings can get way too serious. Just make sure your humor lands (maybe test it on a friend first unless you’re cool with crickets during your big moment).

Example: “I vow to always laugh at your terrible puns, even when they’re objectively not funny. I promise to share the last slice of pizza (most of the time). And I swear I’ll never let you watch sad movies alone—unless it’s Marley & Me, because I’m not emotionally prepared for that again.”

Bonus points if you can make your partner snort-laugh in front of everyone.

3. The Adventure-Seeker’s Vow

For the couple who’s always chasing sunsets, hiking mountains, or planning their next spontaneous road trip, this one’s for you. Frame your love as the ultimate adventure—because marriage is basically a lifelong trip with your favorite person (and hopefully fewer lost luggage incidents).

Example: “I vow to be your partner in every adventure, whether we’re backpacking through Europe or just trying to assemble IKEA furniture without arguing. Wherever life takes us, as long as we’re together, it’ll be one hell of a ride.”

Extra credit if you sneak in a reference to your most disastrous couple’s trip. Nothing says “I love you” like surviving a Airbnb with no hot water.

4. The Geeky & Niche Vow

Star Wars fans, gamers, book nerds—this is your time to shine. Nothing says “I know you” like weaving your shared obsessions into your vows. Just maybe avoid quoting Darth Vader unless you’re going for dramatic irony.

Example: “I promise to always be your Player 2, to respawn with you no matter how many times life beats us, and to never let our love story turn into a side quest. You’re my final boss battle—in the best way.”

Warning: This may result in your officiant giving you a very confused look. Worth it.

5. The Short & Sweet Vow

Not everyone is built for monologues. If you’re more of a “less is more” guy, keep it concise but powerful. Sometimes the simplest words hit the hardest—just ask anyone who’s cried at a Pixar short.

Example: “You’re my favorite person. Today, tomorrow, always. That’s it.” Boom. Mic drop.

Pro tip: If you’re prone to stage fright, short vows mean less time for your voice to crack. Win-win.

6. The Foodie’s Vow

For couples whose love language is basically “let’s order takeout and watch cooking shows,” this one’s deliciously perfect. Compare your relationship to your favorite shared meals—just maybe skip the “you’re the bacon to my eggs” unless you’re cool with being that couple.

Example: “I vow to always save you the last bite, to learn how to make your grandma’s lasagna (even if it takes 50 attempts), and to never judge your questionable midnight snack choices. Life with you is sweeter than dessert.”

Bonus: Include a promise to never put pineapple on pizza if you really want to prove your devotion.

7. The Pet-Lover’s Vow

If your fur babies are basically your firstborn children, this vow style is mandatory. Just try not to make your actual human partner jealous when you spend three paragraphs praising the dog.

Example: “I promise to love you as fiercely as our cat loves knocking things off tables at 3 AM. To be as loyal as our dog when you’re eating literally anything. And to always be your partner in crime—whether we’re spoiling our pets rotten or finally training them. (Just kidding, we both know they train us.)”

FYI: If you don’t include your pet in the vows, are you even a millennial couple?

8. The Music-Inspired Vow

For the couple who’s always swapping playlists or belting out car karaoke, why not let lyrics do some of the talking? Borrow a line from your song (you know the one) or structure your vows like a love letter to your personal mixtape.

Example: “I promise to keep dancing with you even when the music stops. To be your duet partner in this chaotic, beautiful symphony of life. And to always let you control the aux cord… most of the time.”

Warning: May cause spontaneous singing mid-ceremony. Embrace it.

9. The Personal Growth Vow

Marriage isn’t just about love—it’s about growing together. Acknowledge how you’ve changed each other for the better (and promise to keep doing so, even when it’s messy).

Example: “You’ve taught me patience when I wanted to rush, courage when I wanted to hide, and how to love deeper than I thought possible. I vow to keep learning from you, even when the lessons are hard—because becoming a better man with you is my greatest adventure.”

Caution: This one might actually make you cry while saying it. Pack tissues.

10. The “How Did I Get So Lucky?” Vow

Sometimes the best vows are pure, unfiltered gratitude. Tell your partner exactly why they’re your favorite human—specific compliments hit way harder than generic ones.

Example: “I still don’t know how I tricked you into marrying me, but I’ll spend forever trying to deserve you. You’re the reason I believe in luck, in magic, in all the cheesy stuff I used to roll my eyes at. Thanks for proving me wrong.”

Note: If your partner’s eyes don’t get at least a little misty here, check their pulse.

11. The Partnership Vow

Marriage is a team sport. Highlight your equal partnership—whether that’s conquering chores, supporting dreams, or just surviving adulting together.

Example: “I vow to be your teammate in every sense: to tackle laundry mountain together, to cheer loudest for your wins, and to never let you face life’s battles alone. We’re stronger together—and not just because you’re better at assembling furniture than I am.”

Real talk: If you’ve ever argued over whose turn it is to do dishes, this vow’s for you.

12. The Nostalgic “Remember When?” Vow

Take a walk down memory lane by weaving your relationship’s milestones into your promises. Nothing says “I pay attention” like recalling the little moments.

Example: “I vow to keep creating memories with you—from our terrible first date tacos to this perfect day. To keep choosing you through every season, just like I did when you stole my hoodie in college and never gave it back. (I’m still watching you, by the way.)”

Bonus: Mentioning inside jokes will make your guests feel excluded in the best way.

13. The “Flaws & All” Vow

Love isn’t about perfection—it’s about embracing each other’s weirdness. Show you love the real, unfiltered version of your partner.

Example: “I vow to love you even when you’re hangry, when you steal all the blankets, and when you pretend not to snore. (You do.) I wouldn’t change a single thing—except maybe your opinion that ketchup belongs on hot dogs.”

Pro tip: Roast them gently. This isn’t a comedy roast… unless that’s your vibe.

14. The Future-Focused Vow

Dream big together! Paint a picture of the life you’re building—whether that’s travel, family, or just growing old being ridiculously cute.

Example: “I can’t wait to see what our future holds: the cities we’ll explore, the lazy Sundays we’ll waste, the way we’ll still be arguing about thermostat settings at 80. Whatever comes, I know it’ll be better because it’s with you.”

Warning: May cause excessive daydreaming during work meetings.

15. The Literary-Inspired Vow

For the bookworm couples, borrow the elegance of classic literature (without the tragic endings, hopefully).

Example: “If our love were a story, it wouldn’t be a fleeting poem—it’d be an epic, dog-eared novel with notes in the margins. I vow to keep writing our favorite chapters with you, one ordinary, extraordinary day at a time.”

FYI: Jane Austen would approve. So would Nicholas Sparks, but let’s aim higher.

16. The “I’m Bad at This But Here Goes” Vow

Not everyone’s a wordsmith—and that’s okay! Own your awkwardness with a vow that’s authentically you.

Example: “I’m not great with speeches, but here’s the truth: you make me happier than I ever thought possible. I don’t have fancy words, just a lifetime of showing up for you—starting right now.”

Honesty > poetry. Always.

17. The Customizable Fill-in-the-Blank Vow

Still stuck? Use this template and plug in your details:

“I, [Your Name], promise to [specific action, e.g., ‘always let you have the last bite’], to [shared value, e.g., ‘face challenges as a team’], and to [funny personal promise, e.g., ‘never judge your reality TV habits’]. You’re my [unique nickname], my [metaphor, e.g., ‘favorite adventure’], and the love of my life. Let’s do this.”

Boom. Vow crisis averted. You’re welcome.

At the end of the day, your vows don’t need to be perfect—they just need to be yours. Whether you go poetic, silly, or straight-from-the-heart short, what matters is that they reflect the real, messy, beautiful love you share. (And hey, if all else fails, just promise to always load the dishwasher correctly. That’s true romance right there.)

Now go write those vows, you sentimental soon-to-be-husband, you. And maybe practice saying them out loud unless you’re cool with sobbing uncontrollably in front of everyone. No judgment either way. 😉